How long exactly should good sex last?

Well I am no relationship expert and even with my limited experience round the block, there is the general consensus that sex that lasts less than five (5) minutes is very short and unsatisfying and most times leaves one or both partners unfulfilled during the course of intercourse.

From a woman’s perspective, (according to GQ magazine) studies have shown that as explained earlier, sex under five minutes is too quick making the guy flash out really fast, seven (7) to thirteen (13) minutes is adequate and desirable while ten (10) to thirty (30) minutes is deemed too long for orgasm to occur during sex.

But hey, remember that both men and women go through a lot of preparation both mentally and physically before the day of the event so as to be able to enjoy the pleasures, therein. The guys get enhancement such as “penal” enhancing drugs or cream, the ladies, (some of which I’ve heard but never confirmed) get sex toys all in a bid to get ready for the big day.

So…in all of this, what’s a horny man to do when all he wants is to be able to go the distance to bring his lady to the heights of orgasm. As it has been often whispered that Nigerian men are selfish and are only concerned about their own satisfaction in bed and not the woman’s

Well should any of you ladies read this, know I’m not such a person as I love to take joy in the pleasures of my lady as much as I love to give pleasure as well.

I’m not too worried about performance in the sack though but all I know is that I just want to give pleasure as much as I receive pleasure and timelines be damned because I’m not the rushing type and sex should never be rushed unless you want a quickie…

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